Of Israel,
Bar Refaeli, Ministry of Foreign Affairs, IDF and Gender Bias
Discrimination
By
Joel Leyden
Israel News Agency
Jerusalem,
Israel --- March 27, 2013 There appears to be a true and
deep rift today between the Israel Ministry of Foreign Affairs
and the Israel Defense Forces - IDF. But that is nothing really
new. In Israel, if you have two people you will normally get three
opinions. But this time the difference of opinion is over a pretty
girl.
Israeli
supermodel Bar Refaeli stars in a new and highly effective tourism
advertisement for Israel. The Israel Ministry of Foreign Affairs
created the video and the IDF wants it removed. An IDF spokesperson
states: The choice of a representative who did not serve
in the military as an official presenter on behalf of Israel,
conveys the message that Israel ignores and forgives evasion of
enlistment, and encourages identification, among youths of both
sexes, with the success of those who did not enlist.
Bar
Refaeli is accused of escaping IDF military service by getting
married and then obtaining a divorce after she was excused from
the IDF.
The
Israel Ministry of Foreign Affairs defends its decision to use
Bar Refaeli saying: Refaeli is considered one of the most
beautiful women in the world and is widely recognized as an Israeli,
a statement said. There is no reason to bring up the past
when it comes to a campaign of public diplomacy of this kind.
Refaeli
responded to the criticism on Twitter.com: You can use my
clip for the Foreign Ministry or drop it, but my Instagram page
has more readers than Israels most popular newspaper.
I agree with the Ministry of Foreign Affairs and I have served
in the IDF for over 20 years.
If
Bar Refaeli did wrong years ago, do not hang her out to dry if
she is doing wonderful things today for the Jewish state. But
transcending whatever wrong that Bar Refaeli committed, the IDF
is guilty of a much greater injustice.
Why
does the Israel Defense Forces have one rule for men and another
for women? Why is it that married women are excused from the IDF
but not married men?
Both
married men and women should be required to serve. If they have
children, then they or a court (if they are divorced) should decide
who should care for the children.
The
reason for having two sets of rules is called gender bias discrimination.
Gender
bias discrimination in Israel is rampant and has hurt many - thousands
of loving, caring fathers who are divorced and cannot see their
children. Or at least cannot see their children with equal access.
In Israeli society, by default, the women becomes the primary
caretaker of a child until the age of six. And it stays that way
for many years following.
Only
recently have Father's Rights groups made progress in reforming
these archaic and destructive laws of discrimination. It took
fathers rights groups from Israel, including Fathers4Justice,
to file
charges against Israel at the UN and secure decisions against
the Israel Ministry of Welfare and Social Services which is now
forcing them to come to face with the reality that children need
both parents.
The
IDF is in no position to point fingers at Bar Refaeli as not being
worthy of being a "role model" as long as their entire
system is flawed with gender bias discrimination. A system which
made it possible for Bar Refaeli to avoid service where men had
no choice.
We expect more from the IDF. Let's see them treat both men and
women equally.
Bar Refaeli is not the issue.
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